Hello fellow carers. I have never posted on a forum before but have been following TP for a good few weeks now. I've been my husbands carer since MARCH 2011 when he suffered a bilateral brain-stem stroke He was hospitalised for 5 months undergoing gruelling physio rehab before he was able to come home. He has lost all mobility in his legs and has been in a wheelchair ever since he was discharged. we've been very fortunate to have care supplied at home for us through our local LA. His needs definately indicated that. BTW my husband was only 61yrs old at the time of his stroke. I am 9 years younger. Around 18months ago or so I started noticing some changes in my husband like forgetting how to make a phone call or how to work the TV remote properly. We.ve had POA since 2013 so I flagged my worry about my husbands forgetfulness to his GP. He arranged an appointment with the memory clinic and my husband was diagnosed with Vascular Dementia last March. If his many needs were challenging before, they were about to be 3 fold! His dementia progression has been quite slow but recently he's been having problems with communication and seems to have developed OCD (things to be done a certain way or a particular time etc) Is this common with PWD or maybe he's feeling scared and insecure? The thing I feel saddest about is he's never wanted to leave the house in the past 5 years. Thanksx