some advice please.
My grandmother has been struggling and has deteriorated lots over the past 6 months. She then started coughing up blood and we have been informed there appears to be lung cancer in both lungs and a mass growing on her adrenal gland she also has a bad knee, doctor has informed this is arthritis- however that doesn’t just appear!! So I believe that she has bone cancer... we have been told because she Is frail it’s not advisable to explore other areas and not to treat either ... my mother & auntie have agreed not to tell her. It would be too distressing and she will not remember.... today my mother seems to be back tracking on this...I personally would not tell my mother-she won’t remember this info either... thoughts please???
My grandmother has been struggling and has deteriorated lots over the past 6 months. She then started coughing up blood and we have been informed there appears to be lung cancer in both lungs and a mass growing on her adrenal gland she also has a bad knee, doctor has informed this is arthritis- however that doesn’t just appear!! So I believe that she has bone cancer... we have been told because she Is frail it’s not advisable to explore other areas and not to treat either ... my mother & auntie have agreed not to tell her. It would be too distressing and she will not remember.... today my mother seems to be back tracking on this...I personally would not tell my mother-she won’t remember this info either... thoughts please???