Hi , this is the first time have asked a question.
My mum is 75 and has had Alzhiemers for about 4years. My dad is her main carer. He asked social services for help. A social worker was sent to explain what help could be offered. this was 3 weeks ago. Yesterday the social worker came to see them again at my dads request as he was now ready to receive help. The social worker explained what she would organise for them, but then asked my Mum if that was ok and she said NO! So now there is no help from social services, even though my dad would like help, and we are back to square one. Is that allowed considering she is suffering with mental instability and the help from social services would highly benefit both her and my dad.
My Dad is 78 years old and although my brother and I help him, he is at breaking point. We are all tearing our hair out. She wears the same clothes for days on end , bathing is of course an issue, He's admitted to us that mum has hit him twice on seperate occasions. She is on Arasept too .
Her behaviour is the opposite of how she was before the disease and on a good day we deal with a 10 year old and on a bad day shes 5 year old.
Has anyone got any advice or ideas on how I can deal with our situation?
My mum is 75 and has had Alzhiemers for about 4years. My dad is her main carer. He asked social services for help. A social worker was sent to explain what help could be offered. this was 3 weeks ago. Yesterday the social worker came to see them again at my dads request as he was now ready to receive help. The social worker explained what she would organise for them, but then asked my Mum if that was ok and she said NO! So now there is no help from social services, even though my dad would like help, and we are back to square one. Is that allowed considering she is suffering with mental instability and the help from social services would highly benefit both her and my dad.
My Dad is 78 years old and although my brother and I help him, he is at breaking point. We are all tearing our hair out. She wears the same clothes for days on end , bathing is of course an issue, He's admitted to us that mum has hit him twice on seperate occasions. She is on Arasept too .
Her behaviour is the opposite of how she was before the disease and on a good day we deal with a 10 year old and on a bad day shes 5 year old.
Has anyone got any advice or ideas on how I can deal with our situation?