Hi all Got home about 3 hours ago from a visit to mum. Went up Thurs pm after work. At least I didn't have to deal with a turned off fridge freezer as soon as I arrived this time!! Instead we had a 'discussion' about what she'd eaten. I spotted 1/2 a glass of wine on the table but no signs of any meal. Perhaps she'd cleared it up, I hear you say. Well, if you'd ever seen my mum with wine and a meal you'd know the wine disappears long before the end of the food. I started the interrogation gently: Me: 'Did you go into town today?' Mum: 'No, I don't think so.' pause for thought 'No I didn't go in today' Me: 'Have you finished your dinner?'