so i sent my mum to a nursing home on wednesday and she is in isolation because of covid do i can’t visit. the change has made her confused, she. aces up stories to make sense of where she is. but every second or third phone call she starts insisting on going home, she can’t live like this...
it’s so stressful anc i’m feeling so angry, i’ve worked so hard to get her there, ive just moved house and now im dealing with moving her and her house and .... she can just call out of the blue and act like a two year old insisting things be different... do i lie to her? do i placate her?
i desperately need a break, i’m constantly juggling work with unpacking my house and tradies and then the massive amounts of paperwork which are impossible when i’m stuck at home and not supposed to go out because of covid.
im just so angry and sick of repeating over and over why she is in a nursing home.
it’s so stressful anc i’m feeling so angry, i’ve worked so hard to get her there, ive just moved house and now im dealing with moving her and her house and .... she can just call out of the blue and act like a two year old insisting things be different... do i lie to her? do i placate her?
i desperately need a break, i’m constantly juggling work with unpacking my house and tradies and then the massive amounts of paperwork which are impossible when i’m stuck at home and not supposed to go out because of covid.
im just so angry and sick of repeating over and over why she is in a nursing home.