So as I have moved through the boards I now find myself "after dementia" Such a range of emotions - sadness. anger at the disease. relief that the battle is over and thankfulness that the happier memories can now replace the horrible ones.
I don't know what I would have done without Talking Point - I am guilty of being a reader much more than a poster but I have spent many hours reading the threads and gaining valuable advice and insight. Every worry and question I had was answered either directly or by searching and for this I am eternally grateful.
Dementia is the most cruel of diseases robbing loved ones of their memories, their dignity and eventually their lives - I hope one day there will be a cure and will actively support the Alzheimer's Society going forward.
At the moment we are dealing with the practical side of mum's passing and I'm sure there will still be advice on these pages that will help.
One thing that I keep replaying in my mind is that just after mum passed a carer came into the room and said let me say goodbye and she stroked my mum's poor face with such affection and tucked her in bed tightly, Such kindness meant so much in that moment - I hope that one day I will make a difference in someones life like that.
So thank you wonderful people so much for your wisdom, compassion and humor - I wish you all the best at whatever stages you are in this terrible battle
love Lilaclady xxx
I don't know what I would have done without Talking Point - I am guilty of being a reader much more than a poster but I have spent many hours reading the threads and gaining valuable advice and insight. Every worry and question I had was answered either directly or by searching and for this I am eternally grateful.
Dementia is the most cruel of diseases robbing loved ones of their memories, their dignity and eventually their lives - I hope one day there will be a cure and will actively support the Alzheimer's Society going forward.
At the moment we are dealing with the practical side of mum's passing and I'm sure there will still be advice on these pages that will help.
One thing that I keep replaying in my mind is that just after mum passed a carer came into the room and said let me say goodbye and she stroked my mum's poor face with such affection and tucked her in bed tightly, Such kindness meant so much in that moment - I hope that one day I will make a difference in someones life like that.
So thank you wonderful people so much for your wisdom, compassion and humor - I wish you all the best at whatever stages you are in this terrible battle
love Lilaclady xxx