Hi
Recently found out that my father in law has been diagnosed with Alzheimers disease. Both live in Spain for the last 30 years and have made their life there. Apparently the changes have happened over a period of years, but both have become good at hiding the symptoms and my mother in law had respected his request not to tell anyone ( let’s call them Janet and John, otherwise I waffle on). We haven’t visited , as they live a full life , during this time and they usually get lots of visitors. Janet asked us to visit this year, which raised alarm, but she assured us that John was just becoming forgetful.
It has become clear that John has some form of dementia. Jon has seen his GP on one occasion and he made the diagnosis, John has refused to go for any further tests. The GP in Spain is happy to treat and liaise with Janet.
Both my husband and myself feel overwhelmed, we have arranged to visit every few weeks, at the minute, we are very lucky as we are both in good health and have the ability to work from home on return.
We would be grateful for any advice or signposting anyone could give.
Janet has clearly done a remarkable job of caring for him, but I worry ,as he deteriorates, will she be able to continue with this. They have made a good life for themselves in Spain and do not want to return to the U.K. , although Janet has not ruled this out completely . Has anyone had experience of this of care available in Spain? Are there any Support groups in the south of Spain? Will she be able to get any support from anywhere? Are there any care facilities? Will this be feasible?
They haven’t got a POA, he would lack capacity to put this in place now. What should we advice?
We are both reading about the conditions ,there are a lot of resources on the site and feel we just need to get our head around this, but I am really struggling for information specifically for Spain.
I am sure I will be back with a lot more questions!
Thank you x
Recently found out that my father in law has been diagnosed with Alzheimers disease. Both live in Spain for the last 30 years and have made their life there. Apparently the changes have happened over a period of years, but both have become good at hiding the symptoms and my mother in law had respected his request not to tell anyone ( let’s call them Janet and John, otherwise I waffle on). We haven’t visited , as they live a full life , during this time and they usually get lots of visitors. Janet asked us to visit this year, which raised alarm, but she assured us that John was just becoming forgetful.
It has become clear that John has some form of dementia. Jon has seen his GP on one occasion and he made the diagnosis, John has refused to go for any further tests. The GP in Spain is happy to treat and liaise with Janet.
Both my husband and myself feel overwhelmed, we have arranged to visit every few weeks, at the minute, we are very lucky as we are both in good health and have the ability to work from home on return.
We would be grateful for any advice or signposting anyone could give.
Janet has clearly done a remarkable job of caring for him, but I worry ,as he deteriorates, will she be able to continue with this. They have made a good life for themselves in Spain and do not want to return to the U.K. , although Janet has not ruled this out completely . Has anyone had experience of this of care available in Spain? Are there any Support groups in the south of Spain? Will she be able to get any support from anywhere? Are there any care facilities? Will this be feasible?
They haven’t got a POA, he would lack capacity to put this in place now. What should we advice?
We are both reading about the conditions ,there are a lot of resources on the site and feel we just need to get our head around this, but I am really struggling for information specifically for Spain.
I am sure I will be back with a lot more questions!
Thank you x