toilet problems

My wife's hygiene and toilet habits are getting worse. She is not incontinent but is increasingly confused about how to use the toilet and wash herself, and hostile to the idea that I might assist her in any way. Soiled clothing and frequent changes are becoming more common. I managed to get...

My mother is 85 & was diagnosed 3 years ago with mild Alzheimer's. That has now moved on. She was assessed by social services back in January & they deemed that on the day she had mental capacity. She had a fall in April & had social services carers for 6 weeks & we now pay for her current care...