guilt

  1. J

    Guilt and resentment overload

    Hello all, I hope everyone is having a good week, and finding some time and happiness for yourselves. I am really struggling at the moment with guilt, resentment, and conflicting concerns for my OH, myself and my MIL. My OH and I keep putting our lives on hold to care for my MIL - and I know...
  2. B

    A day of guilt and tears...

    Mum passed away two weeks ago now. Her funeral is next week. Everything has been finalised and once the funeral has happened that'll be the end of it all. I am being a wreck today and have given myself a major headache as a result. Why are these thoughts so easy to get in your head and so hard...
  3. T1993r

    Guilt Trips

    I feel quite lucky reading the threads on here, as I don't have it as bad as so many on here. It makes me more aware of what is to come, and hopefully a little bit prepared. My Dad has only mild dementia at the moment, but the constant repeating of stories, the tapping his side table EVERY 5...
  4. M

    Am I A Bad Person?

    Am I the only one that dreads visiting their PWD in the Care Home? When I get there my mum is so pleased to see me - but I know she doesn't remember my visits after I've gone. After about 30 minutes we have run out of conversation and she makes it clear that my time is up. Sometimes I take...