My partner with early onset d went into a dementia home a week ago. I was warned it would be difficult but it has been extremely stressful and upsetting for me. I go to visit and he's standing on his own staring at the floor. The staff work long shifts so do 3 days on and there seems to be different staff on each time I go. They don't seem to understand my partner has real problems with his visual perception. I have to speak with each new member to show them how to care and communicate. I seem to be constantly on edge looking for all the things I don't think they are doing the right way. Any suggestions to help me accept the situation would be appreciated. I feel worse than when I was caring for him at home on my own although I've been told for over 6 months that the care I was giving was unsustainable and I would end up in hospital. I feel so distraught.