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    A whole year has gone by, it's the first anniversary of Bernard's death tomorrow.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jinx View Post
    A whole year has gone by, it's the first anniversary of Bernard's death tomorrow.


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    Will be thinking of you Jinx and your family. Sending special hugs and love, Diana xxxxx

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    A year already. Thinking of you Jinx.
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    A very sad day Jinx. I will be thinking of you. xxx
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    Thinking of you Jinx xxxxx


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    Sending love for today Jinx.

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    Thinking of you today, Jinx. xx

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    Jinx thinking of you today hugs Sandi xxxxx

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    The anniversaries are always hard, and the birthdays and Father's Day and Christmas. Thinking of you Jinx and hoping all is well.

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    You have been much in my thoughts today Jinx.... Hoping there were comforting moments in the day for you as well as the inevitable sad ones, remembering life before dementia and happier times. For you and your daughters.

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    Thank you everyone for your kind thoughts and support. Very much appreciated on the last of the 'firsts'.

    I called this thread 'moving on' as in to a different stage in my life. I suppose I have moved on to accepting my life as it is at the moment but I'm not sure if it's enough, should I be lucky enough to live, healthily, for another 10/15 years. Sorry that's really selfish, I was so lucky to have forty two years of happy marriage and a lovely supportive family, so much more than many people have. I guess I'm just missing that one special person.


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    Perfectly understandable Jinx. I think if we look ahead, we could be a bit fearful, and the future could look somewhat bleak. However, we simply never know what's coming around the next corner. There's bound to be a few of life's surprises in store for us yet, if we keep our eyes open, and occasionally say "why not?" when we want to say "no"!

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    I think your feelings are very natural, especially as your loss is still so very new. I still find it difficult to see much of a future but in reality, just take each day as it comes - the good with the bad. I hope things happen to help you truly move, just a little, soon. x
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    Thinking of you Jinx. Sending massive hugs. Love M xxx

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