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    Ah, so lovely to hear the grandchildren helped you through it, Aisling.

    Why are FD asking for more info after the fact? Is this normal? All you need. And to be honest, all I need if they ask me. I've just paid them, and couldn't bear to have to trawl through it all again. That's inhumane **** from them, yet again.
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    I have a vague memory of getting a letter saying something. But I think it was only relevant if the Will and Estate turned up assets that weren't known about at the Assessment, that's what I understood it to mean anyway. Aisling, tell them they have the list of assets, because it's what ye were assessed on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aisling View Post
    Thanks again. Now can anyone advise how I can get some energy back please? Sleepless nights and exhausted during the day. Sweep floor, sit down, feed dog, sit down!! Fell asleep on couch today for two hours!!

    Aisling xx
    That's a blessing - hope they were a restful two hours. Am still doing that.
    Here's a poem a came across to which most of us can relate:

    The dishes are dirty in the sink
    My other work goes undone
    My friends wait to hear from me
    My energy for life is none

    I wish that time could stop
    I have some catching up to do
    I find my mind on other things
    Remembering and mourning you

    In grief there is a reality
    That no one can prevent
    The world moves on without us
    It doesn't need our consent

    But when I am finally ready
    To join the world once more
    I know that you are with me
    Just different than before
    .

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    Oh, how true is that?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LadyA View Post
    I have a vague memory of getting a letter saying something. But I think it was only relevant if the Will and Estate turned up assets that weren't known about at the Assessment, that's what I understood it to mean anyway. Aisling, tell them they have the list of assets, because it's what ye were assessed on.
    Yes it appears they think they might have missed assets!! Woman insists I fill in form and man says everything is sorted now. I can't find all the relevant stuff I trawled through so they can wait until I find it. No understanding of stress they can cause.

    Still getting letters from fone, esb etc sent to T of course! Ah well just go with the flow.

    Anyone know where I can get a male Alsatian puppy that doesn't cost the earth? Just a vague idea at the moment!

    Grandchildren are coming for a night or two next week.

    Aisling xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by caqqufa View Post
    That's a blessing - hope they were a restful two hours. Am still doing that.
    Here's a poem a came across to which most of us can relate:

    The dishes are dirty in the sink
    My other work goes undone
    My friends wait to hear from me
    My energy for life is none

    I wish that time could stop
    I have some catching up to do
    I find my mind on other things
    Remembering and mourning you

    In grief there is a reality
    That no one can prevent
    The world moves on without us
    It doesn't need our consent

    But when I am finally ready
    To join the world once more
    I know that you are with me
    Just different than before
    .
    Great poem. Thank you.

    Aisling xx

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    Aisling,

    Ah, having your grandchildren near you will be great. Tiring but great .

    Can't believe that HSE crowd.

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