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    Fees up now she is self funding

    MIL and FIL are both in a care home and seem very happy there. They had help with fees from local authority. We have just sold there home to pay for the fees. Well the same week we told them the LA have had money back and the care home has now increased MIL fees to £150 more a week??? No...
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    proton pump inhibitors

    I dont know if this is already posted, I am slightly alarmed by the research that came out a few weeks ago by a German company. That researched that 40 per cent of people on omeprazole and lansoprazole and other similar drugs get Alzhiemers. Well I take this drug, mum took it too but no longer...
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    Don't want mother living with me - am I a bad daughter not facing up to my duties?

    You can carry on being a good daughter, if you dont have her live with you. I have been sorting mum out who is not a good organiser for 30 years I am almost her age now when I started organising her life for her, I toyed with the idea of having her live with us when she was in reasonable...
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    Tired of running someone else's life

    I think most of us feel much the same if its not our partner. Me an my hubby with no help from family look after 1 with vascular dementia and aside running him we have to run his household he is blind deaf and has vascular, his wife is easier as she is in a lovely care home, still needs running...