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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x hi ceris x thank you for replying x my relationship with my mum was always good x and then this happens ? i really think it was easier bring my children up than taking care of mum , if you know what i mean ? i cant put mum to bed when she missbehaves ? or put her on the naughty step ...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x hi sue x and thanks for your reply x the shopping trip went well , even though it took 4 hrs ? which would only take me 2hrs on my own ? but we did have coffee and CAKE ! i had a two shot esspresso , the guy asked if i would like a glass of water with it ? my reply " lord no , i need the kick...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x hi peggy x so pleased things are going well x i can take my mum out in the car , she likes it , i do have one private carer , who takes mum out twice a week , a hour and a half each time , i think i will get more help when mum has had her cat scan and seen the consultant ? i did have a social...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    hi peggy x hi peggy x still didnt have time today to make phone calls ??? what a hectic day again ? trying to arrange a party for my daughter engagement ? not enough hrs in one day ? mum needed lots of attention to day , not a good day for her ? im trying to be everything to everybody ? i...
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    struggling to cope

    x i can relate to this too hi x i can feel what you are feeling ? people sometimes dont like to addmit what is happening to our loved ones ? it is very real, and very scarey for all of us going through this ? sometimes i feel i never will be happy again ? but at some point i hope i will ...
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    New member - struggling to cope

    x i send you my love at this sad time for you x your dad is peacefull now , in his mind and body x this tp site is a life line to all of us x many more people will need it as this dreafull illness affects so many ? tears are good , so let them flow x love from qubecks x
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    She passed

    x so sorry your grandmother has passed x but she will be herself again and at peace x you will never foget her , but you will survive x thats what your grandmother would want x kind regards , qubecks x
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x hope i can be of support to you too x i think i would cope a lot better if i didnt have extra stress off my sisters ? i want to scream at them sometimes ? but i cant ? all i want is for them to spend some time with mum, not wash her hair , not give her a shower , not wash her clothes ect...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x x thank you peggy x i will take this on board , its a lot for me to take in , i mean all you fantastic people listening to me x when my own family couldnt care less , they must really not like me , to be acting this way , and god knows what they think about mum ? i think they should...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x thank you kassy x been to the dentist this morning with mum, all is ok , it just happened to be the morning when my eldest sister pops by ? i did tell her earlier in the week we was going , when we got back home there was a bag on my door ? tv mag for mum, and 3 little cakes in a packet ...
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    New member - struggling to cope

    x x i wish you peace too x watching my mum everday is so hard ? i wish my mum peace also x i hATE SEEING MY MUM SUFFER X but thats the way it is , so all i can do is try to make her safe , happy and well x untill the dreadfull illness lets her go x
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    thanks x

    nite x x nite sue , and thank you x love me x
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    thanks x

    x thank you x thank you jan x nite x
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    thanks x

    nite x nite sue and thank you x love me x
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    thanks x

    x thanks to all the fantastic people on here x i do not feel so alone now x i am learning more and more from you all x i cannot thank you all enough x hugs to everyone , love qubecks xxx
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x my eldest sister is very scarry x makes every excuse in the book , says her husband is very ill ? yet she stays out five hours , sopping and having lunch with a friend , she says its her day off from caring for her husband , she told me that she has been ill for 2 wks ? this was on a sat...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x thank you jan x i wish you and your husband well x i think i do not know enough about this cruel illness ? itis just like a bad dream ? i just want my mum back ? maybe i will get used to this ? every morning i get my mum up , i wounder who she will be ? sorry to bother you with this , but...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    x x thank you for the hug x i really need one x
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    thank you x i cant stop saying thank you , to night x so many good people out there x wish my half sisters was has good ? one comes to see mum every tuesday for max of 15 mins ? on her way to luch with a friend ? the other one has been to see mum 3 times in 2 and a half years ? im the baby...
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    qubecks thread - alone too

    hi x thanks maybe that is it ? but i am finding it very hard to deal with ? i do not know a lot about dementia ? so i really have to learn and fast ? it is so cruel ? i just want my mumma back ? sometimes i think i can cope ? other times i cant ? i am mixed up ? it will not go away , will...