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sorry about my rant, i was in the same place as you are now. you said you do want to go to the funeral. i didnt, but i did and it gave me closure, also on the drive to the cemetery, the amount of poeple who bowed, or did the sign of the cross gave me great strengh, so many...
my mum has advanced alzhimers now. but my tale is about your loss , please my thoughts are with you at this difficult time. my dad had bowel cancer many years ago now. he was admitted to hospital. from the day he went in 6 weeks later he was dead.
i visited 3 times a day even though i have...
i have not been here for a while, i had a misunderstanding with a other member which was my fault and my fault only. i had, had a bad day and was not at my best. to the other member if you remember please accept my full and heart felt apology. i was to embarassed to come back.
the info given by the moderator i would follow, but if you need a chat or any comms feel free to message me . good luck and welcome to tp its a good place when you get low all the folks here are so understanding. good luck, yours always. john
you will find folks on here in the same boat, you will always be able to talk. i do not know about ni but i am sure their will be a ah support group near you. welcome to tp i hope this info is of some help, yours john
hi you said you were desperate to talk, many of us here responded, to try to help. some times i feel from your single responce the support falls on deaf ears. i hope this is not the case. if i am incorrect please accept my apology.
can relate to the horse bit, my wife and here friends have 4 of them, with stables in dunham massey. every night we bring them in from the field is a bit scary. they do have minds of there own, cheers.
hi and welcome to tp, i look after my mum who is 85 and has quiet bad ah now, i do not live with her but call at least 3 times per week and she comes to me all day on sunday.
she lives in sheltered accomodation. but they have just cut the wardon service to only 4 hours per day. you will...
i thought my life was hard, but you have bested it. all you can do is your best, you sound such a loverly caring person, keep it up , try and do the best for your mam and bro. i dont know if you have alread , but try and get expert help, with care for your loved ones and also you, bless...
hello if you need any support at anytime i think you will find it here. my own mum has advanced ah for over 5 years now. sometimes i find it so hard to go on, but then i come
here, welcome and i hope it helps you, yours always john.
it is hard for all on here but i must admit your post set me off with tears, so sorry pal.
i called at mums about 6.30 pm and made her some fish with peas. i went to the loo
when she was eating it , when i came out she had put some strawberry jam on it. what to do, i dont even...
my mum is in advanced ah the thought of letting her get in a car to drive it. im sorry but it is crazy. you must not let husband drive if he is showing signs of ah then he must surrender his licence. i do not want one of my kids killed by someone who is not fit to drive, sorry if this sounds...
so sorry about your mum. i lost my dad 12 years ago and i felt so alone , we were very close. your mum is still here and she will want you to go on, i hope your mum is peaceful, and resting, best wishes and thoughts, yours always john.
ps please fell free to contact me here or send a...
please be strong
hi so sorry but its not your mum saying these things but this cruel desease. sometimes i despair when i get a call from my mum saying she has waited outside for me in the cold for over 1 hour. i had not told her i was picking her up. it can be soul destroying, but we must go...
it seems you have had a visit from the local idiot brigade. bad enough to be robbed but bleach on carpets, wanton destruction. i hope they spend the money they have taken on drugs. in the hope they get a bad batch, mixed with cyanide sounds good to me.
speak to your insurance company...
just a thought seeing this took me back. when i was 15 went to stay with my cousin for a week. they lived in shilden, durham. my cousin 2nd i think was a drum major in her local brass band. my she could through that thing high and catch it, must have been a miners do. all my mums side were...