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    Helen and Alan

    Dearest Helen, I am so sorry I had not seen your post, I don't come on TP as much now since Mum's passing, although some of the names that helped me get through, yours was pretty near the top, for that I am forever thankful xxx I am sending you love peace and hugs that throughout the...
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    Results from the petition I signed

    Dementia-nurses - epetition response Here is the responce I have received from the petition I started requesting for more dementia nurses within our hospitals. Struggling at the moment as I havn't got a computer, so having to access this on my friends. http://www.number10.gov.uk/Page19506
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    Mum and Dads birthday

    Hi Mum of two, we both lost our Mums on the same day 8th March 2009, it still feels so unreal though. Not only that but your Mums birthday is only 2 days after my Mums. Sending you lots of hugs, and maybe we can help each other in the future if the day feels bleak xxx
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    Mum and Dads birthday

    Thank you all of you for your loving thoughts xxxxx Yes Helen that is fine by me. I know the ham sounds a little way off but he was so excited when he realized what it was. The hampers I used to do for both Mum and Dad were purchased over a few weeks so it was never a big outlay in one shop...
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    Mum and Dads birthday

    Well the tears flowed, both with me and Dad. Dad is a broken man, but I showed him how special he is to us and that as a family we are there for him. I spent quite some time with dad today and eventually the tears dried up and we tried as best as we could to have some quality time together.
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    Mum and Dads birthday

    (((((Thank you))))) Yeah ham :D thing is over the years it has got increasingly difficult to buy for Dad, Mum well was never a problem but Dad ... the things I have purchased and he has never used, so for a few years I have done them special hampers etc, which always went down really well. At...
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    Mum and Dads birthday

    It would have been Mums birthday today ...83. I am going to the cemetary to lay a bouquet I made her, just making it made the tears fall as I the last time I did flowers for Mum she was alive. The sad fact is both Mum and Dad shared their birthdays, not only that they were born on the same date...
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    Mum

    Everybody is different when it comes to grief. I spent 4 years seriously grieving for the tragic loss of my brother, depression yes I know it well, from not sleeping, to having too much sleep, forever crying not being able to concentrate. I finally gave in and was prescribed anti depressants and...
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    When the waking up is the nightmare

    Thank you all for your kind messages, they do help xxx Last night I managed a pretty good sleep although not many hours of it. I have always had a pretty vivid imagination and been able to recall most dreams. I wouldn't call the dream a nightmare as they arn't they are lovely, like I say...
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    Dad died.

    Sending you my deepest sympathies. May you be surrounded by family loved ones and friends xxx
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    Surely also if the money coming on from SS is good enough to give a resident human rights law then why on earth not the residents money themselves, it shouldn't make a difference as to where the money is coming from to pay for this .... human rights is human rights isn't it??? Obviously not :mad:.
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    I have a simple answer as to why I was not aware of this myself and many other things also, and that is I would never even consider at any time that Mum would ever go into a nursing home, like I have said before I am adopted and Mum took me out of a childrens home and I for one was certainly not...
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    hystarectamy

    Awww Bel sending you loads of gentle (((((hugs))))) xxxxx
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    Well I for one am shocked as I didn't know this info before. It makes my blood boil to think of all the eldery that have fought to keep the freedom of this country ...that we now enjoy (don't want really to get into politics here) are being pushed yet again to oneside not even to have protection...
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    exactly i totally aggree
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    Well from where I stand its like if I buy an iron from a shop I have more rights than if I was paying over £600 a week for care for my loved one .... I'm sat here completely shocked, thank goodness Mums home was a good one, but that does not make the overrall situation right by any means, by my...
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    Thank you for the link xxxx Its seems reading from both links that [Edited name] health care is mentioned. I can't believe what I have read, but know its' true.
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    :eek: Thats disgraceful!!!!! I am in total shock now :eek:
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    :eek: I hope your wrong Margarita, no matter who is paying for the care if a sufferer is unable to care for themselves and those in charge, no matter who the money is coming from they should be protected surely????
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    For those who want to know About Me.

    I wish all the loved ones seeking justice good luck, Mum was full of quotes, one being .... if at first you don't succeed try try again ;)