I know what you are up againts my husband was 57 when i started to look for some where I got that trough the hospital
when I finally got a place they were only registered for younger people 60 and upwards that ment they had to get yet another registration for under 60...
My husband has been in Hospital for almost a year then in a home for two years I have never had any trouble when i wanted to take him out to the pub or home for dinner i also feel very happy when i want to take him out into the grounds and just sit with him or go to his room to cut his...
We did get a disabled facilities grant it took so long
my Bill only had the use of it for 6 months befor he went in a home it took over two years
and that was with a lot of pushing from me good luck margaret xx
I rember when we had an appointment with the consultant
he ask me if I had any conserns I asked him to tell my husband
to stop driving I taught it would be better comeing from him
that way my husband would not be upset with me
So when we were called into his office what did the...
we wondered whether he realised that he too had dementia. But for some reason, it wasn’t distressing, and that is good.
My Husband Bill and our friend Lionel both with
Alzheimzers, they would sit and talk to each other
about how they felt and how they were copeing
Connie and I...
I want to get off this roller coaster now I just can't fight anymore so tired
I remember thinking and saying that so many times but thank God I did not, It took me almost a year to get my Husband now 59 in to the care home I wanted for him now when I look at him I know
it was well worth the...
We are under The London Hospital they asked my Bill if he would like to sign up which he did
We get letters every year asking what medication he is on
We wear given a registretion no each [ he volunteered me]
I carry the cards with me , When I put My Bill into his...
When I wanted to go to a care group for two hours once a month
they said he could go to the day center in the next room he would only sit in the reception area with his paper he would not go in with the other caredfor he said they were to old
Imust say I found it very hard to relax...
WE got a EPA about 8 years age but then got a Living will to
make sure that I could keep control of the medical side aswell
as yet all is well I can only hope we have done the right thing
because It is to late now to chang anything
My Bill loved his day centers we met another couple at a care group so the two boys went to there _club together my husband was about 55 then
I LOVED THE CENTER WITH ALL MY HEART X X