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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Mum's now 20 miles away and there is a 10 year old there. I was even keeping my childrens visits down to half an hour evey few days as mum was getting so agitated around them it wasn't good for my children or mum, which is a pity as they adored each other. the support on here has been great...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Hi thanks for your time, the card and photo is a really good idea we may just do that. Could only be with mum as i as I'm done with the sister Mums home is the closest thing we 3 youngest have to a family home we were in it every day our gathering point. The older ones were never in it so...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Mum had a kidney infection for some time before everything kicked off, she as on her fourth course of anti-biotics. A major reason she was extra difficult and critical of us.The infection cleared up a week after everyhing fell apart to whch the idiot looking after her now thinks she's the reason...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Thank you all so much for your kind words it really has made a difference
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    Momentine Hi my mum had a similar phase she was on a newish medication i think it was called momentine, it did help with her serious agitation but only the agitation. She would have gone to the kitchen or checked the fireplace 15 to 20 times no joke, she has vascular dementia,I dont know if...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    You got a smile there, thanks. The "invisable" in this case is looking down her nose at us, but she's really still in the honeymoon period. We had that when mum first became 24 hour, we were laughing and joking for months then she just seemed to get bored with us being around even though she...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Hello thanks for replying, its been almost 6 weeks now and nobodys really speaking, a lot of what we hear is through the grape vine, mum even hung the phone up today on my sister. I dont think we can reach out to mum any more, as every knock back hurts and we havn't got any energy left. We didnt...
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    Family feud mum has shunned us PLEASE HELP

    Please help Mum has had dementia for 6 or so years only been diagnosed 1 and half years ago. Myself and and my sister have been looking after her for years. 24 hour care began about 5 months ago when mum stared being scared to be on her own at all day or night which became fairly demanding, we...