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    My dad Brian

    I am so very sorry. It is an awful, awful time to go through. Sending love and thinking of you at this very difficult time x
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    Please try to remember those who cant This Christmas

    Well said. Have a lovely Christmas x
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    My dad Brian

    I am so sorry. My thoughts are with you and your family. A truly awful time. Take care of yourself x
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    OMG it could not be any worse!! need advise please

    I am so very sorry to read this. It is unbelievable how insensitive the care system and NHS can be. Unfortunately I have no advice to give but just wanted to say I am thinking of you and sending you love and strength. I hope you manage to get this sorted very soon x
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    Finally ended.. thank you all for your support.

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you x
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    My dad Brian

    So sorry for what you are going through. My thoughts are with you x
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    Mum at peace

    So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this sad time x
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    Mums gone

    I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you x
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    awake but eyes shut?

    My dad was the same for quite some time. It was only after he died that I realised that perhaps the reason he did that was to shut out some of the visual stimuli so that he wouldn't be overwhelmed. He often had his eyes shut but was very clearly listening and would eat and respond with eyes...
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    The battle has ended

    Harry's daughter I am so very sorry to hear about your dad. My dad died just over 2 weeks ago and I miss him terribly. I understand what you mean - I wish people, no matter how well meaning, would be careful what they say to me as it upsets me more... I wish you strength in the days and months...
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    Ever decreasing Circles

    Dear Norms, Thank you so much for posting. Your poem says so much. I am so sorry for your struggles. My dad died just under 2 weeks ago and his struggles sound very similar to yours. We didn't discuss very much how he felt about his Alzheimers. I think he was trying to protect the rest of the...
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    just lost my mum

    Wishing you strength for Christmas x
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    just lost my mum

    Claire1 I am so sorry for your loss. My dad died on 14th November. Even writing that feels unreal and makes me cry. I too feel overwhelmed with sadness and don't know what to do with myself. Sending you love and hugs x
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    Mum's funeral tomorrow

    2jays, also sending you love and hugs and strength x
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    Mum's funeral tomorrow

    Wishing you strength to get through the day. My dad's funeral was last week. Even writing that makes me feel sick. I never thought I'd get through it but I did. My grief is very raw and I'm crying a lot. Sometimes I just feel completely numb. Sending you love and hugs x
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    Now I only have one parent with Alzheimers....mum passed away

    I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love x
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    Passed away

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you x
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    Gone

    Wendy, I am so sorry. My dad died last week and I just feel devastated and empty. My thoughts are with you x
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    End of life - mum fighting it at 69

    Thank you all for your words of support. It is reassuring to know that I'm not the only one who feels worried they did something wrong. Dad's funeral is now over. I feel empty and so so sad. I am still beating myself up, trying to process everything that has happened over the past 8 months since...
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    End of life - mum fighting it at 69

    Devastated Chloebo and Emomam I am so sorry for your loss. My dad also died yesterday in the very early hours of the morning and I feel utterly devastated. I can't believe it. I keep being told that I should be glad that he died very peacefully, surrounded by his family who all love him. But I...