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Thank you so much to those of you who replied to my dilemma question a few weeks ago.
I just thought I'd give an update as may be helpful...
Thank you all so much for your replies.
I spoke to my dad at the weekend. He seemed to have an understanding of what has happened.
My dad has dementia and 2 weeks ago my mum died of vascular dementia.
They were in the same care home.
Shortly after her death we brought...
My mum was sectioned for 6 months.
Social services were responsible for finding her home. I could view them and agree but there was never...
My mum became very aggressive with dementia and unfortunately this coincided with my dad becoming very old and frail.
She was abusive to...
I posted a few weeks ago explaining that after an infection my mum seemed like she'd aged about 20 years no exaggeration!
Wondered if any of you had had experience of a sudden rapid progression of dementia?
My mum has been very feisty and agressive for a long...
Care home staff guilt!
Hi hope all you guys are OK.
Have any of you had experience of care home staff making you feel guilty?!
1 lady keeps...
Yes i remember talking to you a while ago.
Good advice about saying you'll leave.
I did that last time and she did stop a bit. Although...
I haven't been on here for a while.
Very true what you say in that there's no nice mum/daughter relationship framework to work on from a...
Apart from this forum being good to share dementia experiences, it amazes me how many people have always had bad relationships with their mums. It...
Thanks for your reply. Our situations sound so similar. I really related to what you said about having no "positive history"
My mum has...
Don't feel bad for offloading. I'm thankful this forum is here for all of us to do just that when we need to.
It seems there is no suitable...
Sounds like you've been through very similar.
So was your mum sectioned more than once?
My mum was sectioned for 5/6 months and they...
Yes I'll definitely stay away for a while.
I'll try and visit my dad who is on a different floor and just hope she doesn't see me!
Yes I've never been able to do right even before her dementia!
I was going to take her out for a coffee and return tomorrow but after seeing...
I usually visit her alone but thought she would be happy to see my kids, they are the one thing that usually cheers her up.
I will ring...
My mum has been in a psychiatric hospital after being sectioned for 5 months.
She couldn't wait to get out and we recently found a suitable care...
You are right I should put myself first now. My mum certainly won't!