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  1. Worthitprincess

    Mum hates new place....I'm such an awful person!

    I think it's because she still so young and around those a lot older than herself so it's possibly scaring her. I suppose I can't help the way I feel because I adore her to the moon and back. I'm trying to take my mind off it by working and keeping occupied by doing other things. And then maybe...
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    Mum hates new place....I'm such an awful person!

    Couldn't agree with you more. She had two care visits a day with six hours in between of no one there plus hallucinating which was horrific to see and there was no way she was staying in that house doing the things she was doing. I can't help but feel like I'm the worst person on earth right...
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    Mum hates new place....I'm such an awful person!

    It's just ruined my day so much seeing her the way she was..... Will go back later after work if possible. I just feel so guilty doing this to her and she's only 68. She said I don't want to be reminded that I have Alzheimer's with all these people around. I want all my own things in my own...
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    Mum hates new place....I'm such an awful person!

    Hi there Just called into mums new home and she was packing and saying I don't like it here, I'm bored and there's loads of people who are ill here I want to go home....she was really low and upset and it's all because of me.... I couldn't bear to stay long as I couldn't cope with how low it...
  5. Worthitprincess

    Care home assessment tomorrow

    Thank you canary, your advice helps a great deal. I've found out in the past few hours a few lies are good because it's the only way to convince her. Luckily I took drama in school so am pretty good at acting lol! X Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Care home assessment tomorrow

    Well I've made it out it's a holiday for her. I'm so pleased she's so positive about it, no mention of care home or residential home. I'm hoping she will love it there so much she will forget about the life she had in her house on her own lonely and isolated. I've even said her imaginary friend...
  7. Worthitprincess

    Care home assessment tomorrow

    Yes I have just spoken to the lady and they are going to move her into the reminiscence unit instead of assisted living which I am so surprised about! It's good to know she will get the level of care she requires and I can get a rest as I am so exhausted! Pictures are being sent this afternoon...
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    Care home assessment tomorrow

    They were absolutely amazing. The lady was a psychiatric nurse and delt with mum amazingly. And said I have a huge hotel you can come and stay if you want. Mums processing it at the moment and isn't sure but hoping she will go with it on wednesday. Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Care home assessment tomorrow

    Hi all Dreading tomorrow yet also thinking this could be positive at the same time. Mum not been too bad this afternoon and has generally been her normal self and today has been her first full day without anti biotics. Although this morning she was convinced she was going out for a meal...
  10. Worthitprincess

    Feeling down and knackered

    Well this 2 month trial is with a hope that she will stay for the remainder of her time. She's only 68 but it's so sad I had to do this. It's for her safely and well being plus she will be able to socialise more and do more things during the day instead of sitting at home by herself. I have to...
  11. Worthitprincess

    Feeling down and knackered

    Back to feeling down once again, even with her evening carer here we have had all sorts from drones watching her to her fellas mum coming to visit. I haven't been able to leave the house because she's been so bad. Thank god for online food delivery it's been a god send this week! Sent from my...
  12. Worthitprincess

    Feeling down and knackered

    Thank you Rosnpton Does anyone know what to do if she refuses to leave after the care team telling her with me present and also the mental health social worker? I'm still dreading it and I know she won't go without a fight....[emoji30] Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Feeling down and knackered

    And we are back to the hallucinating again.....definitely not her anti biotics! [emoji17] Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Feeling down and knackered

    Well I know it won't go down well on Monday but I think it's the only way I can get her up there to be cared for properly instead of sitting alone in a big house waiting for the next care visit (6 hours in between each visit as she only has morning and evening). I'm hoping she will like the time...
  15. Worthitprincess

    Feeling down and knackered

    Yes I couldn't ask for more. I don't feel alone in all this! She's finished anti biotics now so hoping this may change things possibly. We shall see? Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Feeling down and knackered

    Assessment is Monday and I'm feeling less anxious about it because I know it's for the best for her. It doesn't help my time of the month is also here and my hormones are all over the shot too! She's finished her antibiotics today so I wonder whether they may be a change in her behaviour however...
  17. Worthitprincess

    Feeling down and knackered

    Absolutely shattered this morning. Going back to bed in a moment. Got a banging headache and feeling rough :( not the state I need to be in to look after mum :( x Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point
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    Feeling down and knackered

    Hi all Have had a right day of it today, mum saying her friend and his friends are all in the garden and that they want to kill the cat. She won't settle for bed and gets distracted whilst eating and also wanted to make a phone call to someone who wasn't actually there too! I was so glad I...
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    Mum still hallucinating, is it the meds or progression?

    I just really hope it goes all to plan. I do think my dad was smiling down on me when the lady said the room was free. I'm so glad he wasn't here to see how bad she has been. I'm not naming my first child Daniel that's for sure (this is the man she has been seeing). Talking point has been my...
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    Mum still hallucinating, is it the meds or progression?

    She's also got her anti psychotic drug now which she starts tonight and I'm hoping will give her a more settled night. X Sent from my iPhone using Talking Point