Having 'compliance' issues with mother, 90, using most absorbent pull-ups manage a wash and change once a day if lucky. Last change yesterday morning. Lives with us so offer of help available but have found best to wait for request as suggestion leads to defiance and denial. Problem is how long is too long! Today is absolutely point blank not accepting help. Absolutely sodden and stinky but in complete denial. Have managed to change chair pads early today but no go with pants! now just sitting using her nightie as absorbent now, along with the dog who is sitting on her lap! Any ideas please?