Hello, I am new to the forum and am asking for help. My Mum is in a nursing home because she attacks my husband and myself, verbally and physically. She has been in the home for 2 years and asks to go home all the time. She accepted that she was too ill to look after herself to start with. Now she is getting very aggressive and insisting that she is going home and we can't stop her. It is very upsetting for us when we visit and we try to do all that we can to keep her calm and content. Is it better to explain to her that she lives in the home now or keep putting her off. There is another problem looming as the Home is closing and moving to another place and Mum will be moving with it. We just don't know what to do.