That's cool, but we do this anyway with telepathy.
The other day, I thought of someone I had not communicated with for about 2 years and the very next day, they sent me an email....."I just thought I'd send you this...."
It would certainly be intriguing to know what it is like inside the brain of a sufferer. Are they actually happy or are they quietly frustrated, but unable to communicate it? Do we suffer more about them, than they suffer themselves?
mojo, I think it is good that you want to help your partner maintain functionality as long as possible. My Dad was incredibly disgusted with the 'memory clinic' who basically said at the beginning that mil was not bad enough for them to bother with! He was expecting them to make suggestions of ways to help her maintain her mental capacity as long as possible.
I stress that it is only our own experience but my Dad did encourage mil to attempt things like the crossword as long as possible, and she also took a really good quality ginkgo biloba supplement (which is supposed to help maintain good circulation). The doctors have been surprised at how slowly mils vas dementia did progress, and she did not decline sharply until paranoia began to creep in, she was diagnosed with Alzh also, the first medication prescribed caused unpleasant side effects and she then started refusing the supplements. Not evidence but our feeling is that it had been helping her a lot.
Good luck.
What do you do when the things that used to 'light your fire' have disappeared, atrophied along with your brain function?
In my opinion, it's no good talking as if it's a 'use it ot lose it' option.
Nobody used it more than my mother, she is away with the fairy's.
These 'cure/prevention' suggestions are erroneous until science is able to pinpoint a way to halt the progress.
In my opinion it is a degeneration that will go alongside old age, regardless of the lifestyle... and some catastrophic versions of dementia will happen before old age is lucky enough to be borne.
Some lucky old people will escape cancer, ill-health and dementia...some will endure all three...happy are the ones who live to a ripe old age without encountering any of them and die quietly in their own bed.
We expect too much for the end of life.