Hi
(Have posted before but still im new to this)
My nan GP has told me that dementia has set in the only reason I can think of him coming to this conclusion is an MRI scan she had in hospital for delirium which showed she had had a mini stroke apart from that he has done no test on my nan just referred us to the memory clinic and then he said that's for a diagnosis..and of course I have been given no information on dementia or how to deal with little problems that come up.as you do I have spent hours on the internet researching...
Some day's I go and see my nan (I see her everyday) I question does she have dementia as she is so bright an on the ball OK she is not how she used to be but she is 91,other day's I visit you can see the forgetfulness, confusion and just plain muddled. I am just so confused im in limbo with no one to talk to we are still waiting for the memory clinic appointment.
I have noticed the last couple of day's my nan is very cross not so much angry at the career that goes in the usual lady has gone on holiday so its a new lady she has phoned me demanding that I pick her up and take her home as she has had enough of them,I have told her she is home, now she is demanding that I stop the careers altogether she has no understanding there their to help her and me I can't cope on my own I'm a very lucky lady I don't work my partner support's me and our daughter, but we have always said once daughter goes to secondary school I would go back to work,there is no way I could go back now but unfortunately my partner can't see this like everyone else his no fan of my nan.can anyone give me any tips on dealing with the frustration coming from my nan I just seem to take anything she says personally I know I shouldn't
Many thanks
(Have posted before but still im new to this)
My nan GP has told me that dementia has set in the only reason I can think of him coming to this conclusion is an MRI scan she had in hospital for delirium which showed she had had a mini stroke apart from that he has done no test on my nan just referred us to the memory clinic and then he said that's for a diagnosis..and of course I have been given no information on dementia or how to deal with little problems that come up.as you do I have spent hours on the internet researching...
Some day's I go and see my nan (I see her everyday) I question does she have dementia as she is so bright an on the ball OK she is not how she used to be but she is 91,other day's I visit you can see the forgetfulness, confusion and just plain muddled. I am just so confused im in limbo with no one to talk to we are still waiting for the memory clinic appointment.
I have noticed the last couple of day's my nan is very cross not so much angry at the career that goes in the usual lady has gone on holiday so its a new lady she has phoned me demanding that I pick her up and take her home as she has had enough of them,I have told her she is home, now she is demanding that I stop the careers altogether she has no understanding there their to help her and me I can't cope on my own I'm a very lucky lady I don't work my partner support's me and our daughter, but we have always said once daughter goes to secondary school I would go back to work,there is no way I could go back now but unfortunately my partner can't see this like everyone else his no fan of my nan.can anyone give me any tips on dealing with the frustration coming from my nan I just seem to take anything she says personally I know I shouldn't
Many thanks