I have a dad who is one month short of 90 and has been diagnosed with vascular dementia. It is beginning to get worse. He is becoming more aggressive at times (verbal). He is declining showers and as he has a permanent catheter hygiene is fairly important. He has regular uti's because of this and declining to drink regularly. He has started to mess himself periodically.
I have spoken to ss but they say most of his problems are medical and I need to talk to the GP. They seem to deem him able to decision make. Refusal to shower and be clean is his choice.
I think he now needs full time care ( yes feel v guilty). He has 4 times a d ay visits but it is not enough
How can I get them to see he really needs help?
I have spoken to ss but they say most of his problems are medical and I need to talk to the GP. They seem to deem him able to decision make. Refusal to shower and be clean is his choice.
I think he now needs full time care ( yes feel v guilty). He has 4 times a d ay visits but it is not enough
How can I get them to see he really needs help?