I'mm frequently told by my daughter that I'm immature ... Thank goodness!
I can be relied on to embarrass my daughter in front of her friends - it's my job - but the other day she told me that all of her friends think I'm lovely! I was so touched.
I am not in the position now but I have been in the past. I don't think it is anything new and many of the older TP members will have experienced this in the past.
My own children were around 10 and 13 when my mother was dignosed with AD though she had been acting very oddly for some time previous to this. My children loved their Nan and this never faltered as they understood that she was ill, even though we had no knowledge of AD at all. Other people had no understanding at all.
The support now - even though much criticised - was non-existent at that time - some 30 years ago. There was also no Alzheimer's Society.
Most nursing homes would not take people who showed signs of dementia - we were told people need to make provision for this before it happened! It was up to the family to provide the care. My mother only had her state pension and there was no suggestion of help from any Social Services or anybody else. We just had to get on with it. My mother died in my sister's house with pneumonia at just 73 - the Dr had refused to send her to hospital.
Believe it or not - things are better now.
Hello all
I love the Nutella analogy. I'm using that one from now on!
My 65 year old mum is recently widowed and recently diagnosed with AD.
My baby has just turned 1. I am due back to work after maternity leave but am giving up so I can look after mum (and my little girl, of course!)
My maternity leave has been spent caring for Dad, mum and my baby.
My brother lives at the other side if the world, so it's just me!
We would love to have more children, but of course it's hard to think about with managing mom's care.
We are in the process of moving from the UK back to Ireland so I can look after mum. My husband will stay working in the UK and travel back and forth.
So that's my situation.
Thought I wouldn't have to be Nutella until I was in my 50's......