Hi Wendy
Welcome to TP. I've found it a great support and source of information. I especially value Barry's and Norrms contributions in the ' I have dementia thread', they express so eloquently what we all sometimes feel and are really useful to show others when you can't find the right words yourself.
I'm 54 and has been diagnosed with Alzheimers for just over a year. It's a scary place to be and I find a lonely place as it's hard to find people in the same age bracket that are suffering too. Some days it's hard to believe that the diagnosis is correct then something happens that reaffirms it is. I was on long term sick when I had my diagnosis and my employers were very supportive in helping me obtain my pension early when I left as I could no longer learn new information, which was needed to do the job. I still do a part time job, which I have been doing for about 5 years and hope to continue until I am unable to function well enough. Whether that be 2 years or another month, who knows.
Everything can be overwhelming at your stage of diagnosis, but if I can help in any way, please contact me. You can send me a private message if you prefer,once you've worked out how to use this site and it would be nice to be in contact with someone in a similar position. Take care