Hi, First a little bit about my situation, my dad was diagnosed with Alzeimers about 10 years ago now, for the first 8 years he lived with my small family until he had what was believed to be a stroke (unconfirmed) this resulted in a 12 week stay in hospital.
After this it was decided that it was only fair to find a suitable nursing home for my father as it was becoming increasingly difficult for my partner and I to meet all of dad's needs and it wasn't fair on our young children and putting major strain on our relationship. During our search to find a nursing home my father was granted countinuing health care, along with this came a shortlist of nursing homes within our area, none of which seemed to meet our "expected" standards. When we looked away from the list either the homes were full or to far away from family so we got a placement in a home close to us so we could spend lots of time there ensuring my father's care need were being adequately met. Within 1 month we raised a safeguarding issue and the home was immediately put on stop, following this there was a complete change of management and some staff along with many meetings involving residents family members, management and representatives from the CQC and local authorities, during the coming months lots of thing within the home certainly changed for the better but I still had many reservations and was struggling to build a trusting relationship with anyone there.
About 6 weeks ago it was decided enough was enough and we demanded that another placement was found for my father, this was immediately accepted by the CQC but as of yet we have heard nothing!!
Sorry seems a bit long winded so back to my original topic;
A couple of weeks ago my father was hit with a chest infection, his GP was called and antibiotics prescribed. After finishing the antibiotics he still seemed very chesty and under the weather. A couple of days later I received a phone call late at night saying my father was still chesty and an ambulance had been called and he was being admitted to hospital. On arrival bloods were taken and they showed he is still fighting an infection but also they showed he was severely dehydrated............how could this be I ask myself???? I understand during times of infection my dad may not want food or fluid but surely that's why the have logs of food and fluid intake to monitor this? If he had not been having adequate intake of fluids should further advise not been sought??
Am I being rationale in my thinking, using the word neglect? (Not for the first time)
FYI I have been working away allot during the past couple of months so to some degree I feel guilty for not giving my father the time and support he deserves but this is not about making me feel better it's about every resident in that home (lots who don't seem to get visitors) and hoping there basic care needs are being met.
Maybe I am missing setting here??
Although this is my first post here please note I have visited the site regularly and lots of your experiences and advise have helped me through extremely tough times.
Any words of advise will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Richie3210
After this it was decided that it was only fair to find a suitable nursing home for my father as it was becoming increasingly difficult for my partner and I to meet all of dad's needs and it wasn't fair on our young children and putting major strain on our relationship. During our search to find a nursing home my father was granted countinuing health care, along with this came a shortlist of nursing homes within our area, none of which seemed to meet our "expected" standards. When we looked away from the list either the homes were full or to far away from family so we got a placement in a home close to us so we could spend lots of time there ensuring my father's care need were being adequately met. Within 1 month we raised a safeguarding issue and the home was immediately put on stop, following this there was a complete change of management and some staff along with many meetings involving residents family members, management and representatives from the CQC and local authorities, during the coming months lots of thing within the home certainly changed for the better but I still had many reservations and was struggling to build a trusting relationship with anyone there.
About 6 weeks ago it was decided enough was enough and we demanded that another placement was found for my father, this was immediately accepted by the CQC but as of yet we have heard nothing!!
Sorry seems a bit long winded so back to my original topic;
A couple of weeks ago my father was hit with a chest infection, his GP was called and antibiotics prescribed. After finishing the antibiotics he still seemed very chesty and under the weather. A couple of days later I received a phone call late at night saying my father was still chesty and an ambulance had been called and he was being admitted to hospital. On arrival bloods were taken and they showed he is still fighting an infection but also they showed he was severely dehydrated............how could this be I ask myself???? I understand during times of infection my dad may not want food or fluid but surely that's why the have logs of food and fluid intake to monitor this? If he had not been having adequate intake of fluids should further advise not been sought??
Am I being rationale in my thinking, using the word neglect? (Not for the first time)
FYI I have been working away allot during the past couple of months so to some degree I feel guilty for not giving my father the time and support he deserves but this is not about making me feel better it's about every resident in that home (lots who don't seem to get visitors) and hoping there basic care needs are being met.
Maybe I am missing setting here??
Although this is my first post here please note I have visited the site regularly and lots of your experiences and advise have helped me through extremely tough times.
Any words of advise will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks
Richie3210