My mum has Az but has always been in complete denial about it. She's gets so angry and upset when its mentioned that for a long time, we have all been treading on egg shells to keep her happy! One of the biggest bug bears is Doctors and other professionals who think its perfectly acceptable to keep mentioning the word dementia in front of her even though she is clearly reacting badly to it! We recently moved mum in with us to a new area and of course this meant new gp surgery. I was dreading it as mum had been at her old gp for years and they knew the ropes with her! I had asked the receptionist to add a note to mum records but she said although they would, it may go unseen by gp/nurse!! We had to see the nurse for the usual health checks and the nurse immediately assumed that mum did not have a voice and was unable to answer questions and was talking about mum to me like she wasn't there, when mum was sitting by my side!! Mum was getting very brisly indeed and It was a very uncomfortable 10 minutes!! I was waiting for the explosion. I had to start including mum in the conversation but sadly the penny did not drop with the nurse!! It was clear this nurse did not understand dementia or have much commonsense to shut up when I'm sitting there making facial expressions and shaking my head!!! Had this many times, its frustrating, upsetting and very stressful!!!