Hi anongirl. I can't say anything useful at all except that the last part of your post really hit home with me. This disease is brutal and takes away any dignity. Like you, I remember my mum being glamorous, always well dressed, looked younger than her years, intelligent and funny. Now she wears clothes that don't match, she walks like a little old lady, and the hardest part is how much I know she would absolutely hate who she's become. The only comfort, and it has to come from logic not emotion, is that she doesn't hate it, because she doesn't know. That's the only saving grace of this b&@3rd disease, that the sufferer doesn't know what has happened to them. Sorry this is a bit rambly, just wanted you to know you're not alone xx