I appear to have lost the art recently, why is that? It is as if I am doing it on purpose but I'm not. MIL says something slightly bizarre & I contradict her immediately. Example, On Monday she needed her lock changed, physio came & later carer. All within the same 1 1/2 hour period. Plus then I had to show her where the new lock was & how it worked. I was a bit concerned that she would be anxious/agitated by it all so after I had been back at work for 1/2 hour I rang her. She was nice & calm so I was relieved.
She then told me she'd been out, that she'd been at work with me. Did I accept that? Oh no, had to tell her that the locksmith had been etc. As soon as the word locksmith was out of my mouth I thought "how stupid am I" This was what I wanted to avoid, bringing up something that might disturb her, She'd clearly forgotten so why the h*ll was I bringing it up again!!
I was doing so well until recently. Must try a lot harder!!
She then told me she'd been out, that she'd been at work with me. Did I accept that? Oh no, had to tell her that the locksmith had been etc. As soon as the word locksmith was out of my mouth I thought "how stupid am I" This was what I wanted to avoid, bringing up something that might disturb her, She'd clearly forgotten so why the h*ll was I bringing it up again!!
I was doing so well until recently. Must try a lot harder!!