Hello Millie
How are you doing now Millie? There is so much to organise initially and then suddenly it all goes quiet. Hope you have supportive friends and neighbours and have started finding yourself. It takes time when you have been caring 24/7 as that absorbs all your time.
I am in the same position as you, my husband of 47 years died the day before your husband, we worked and lived together all our married lives, and I feel like half of me has gone.
I am supported beautifully by a former carer who used to come in and help me with Ewen, excellent neighbours although they are both new and some long standing friends. I am lucky and hope you are too. I have just had a big op so not mobile at the moment, just sitting at my computer and thought I would catch up here. Not been on since Ewen died.
I wish you peace of mind, health and future happiness whatever you do with your life now. Best wishes x