Hi - my question is can I refuse to accept a care home if I'm not happy with it?
The hospital are insisting on discharging my mum - she has been awarded NHS Continuing Care funding - but they are only giving us the choice of two care homes.
We're in a catch 22. NHS continuing healthcare sounds like a good thing - BUT the discharge nurse at the hospital (mums been sectioned twice) says that only two homes
a) have an NHS CHC contract and
b) can cater for mums complex needs.
One of the homes is too far away for my dad to visit (and had a bad CQC report), and we have been told by someone who worked in the other one that it's really bad.
I have found another home I like (the only one out of 14 that I've looked at) and, although they don't have an NHS contract, the manager has said that they have in some circumstances done a 'spot contract' for an NHS resident. They are aware of mums needs and are prepared to do an assessment IF and only IF the CCG (the NHS CHC awarding body) would agree to an arrangement where they pay for the nursing care and we top up with the 'lifestyle' extra.
We want to do this - we were thinking we'd have to pay for it all anyway. I just want my mum in the best place - if the funding means that can't happen that seems so wrong - as we are prepared to pay the difference!
My dad is 82 and due for major heart surgery - there is no way he can travel to the homes they are suggesting, and I don't feel happy about either of them in terms of mums care anyway (one had a bad CQC report and the other we've had the bad reference).
I'm horrified that this very unsympathetic discharge nurse is saying they will choose if we don't! I said to her that my mum getting as many visits as possible at this stage in her illness is really important - friends and family are visiting and they wont if she's 40 miles away, never mind my dad.
Ive told her I'm going to dig deeper as to whether the CCG can do a 'spot contract' for us for the home we like.
But like so much about this NIGHTMARE system we all have to struggle through - I just wondered if anybody had been in this position??
Many thanks
The hospital are insisting on discharging my mum - she has been awarded NHS Continuing Care funding - but they are only giving us the choice of two care homes.
We're in a catch 22. NHS continuing healthcare sounds like a good thing - BUT the discharge nurse at the hospital (mums been sectioned twice) says that only two homes
a) have an NHS CHC contract and
b) can cater for mums complex needs.
One of the homes is too far away for my dad to visit (and had a bad CQC report), and we have been told by someone who worked in the other one that it's really bad.
I have found another home I like (the only one out of 14 that I've looked at) and, although they don't have an NHS contract, the manager has said that they have in some circumstances done a 'spot contract' for an NHS resident. They are aware of mums needs and are prepared to do an assessment IF and only IF the CCG (the NHS CHC awarding body) would agree to an arrangement where they pay for the nursing care and we top up with the 'lifestyle' extra.
We want to do this - we were thinking we'd have to pay for it all anyway. I just want my mum in the best place - if the funding means that can't happen that seems so wrong - as we are prepared to pay the difference!
My dad is 82 and due for major heart surgery - there is no way he can travel to the homes they are suggesting, and I don't feel happy about either of them in terms of mums care anyway (one had a bad CQC report and the other we've had the bad reference).
I'm horrified that this very unsympathetic discharge nurse is saying they will choose if we don't! I said to her that my mum getting as many visits as possible at this stage in her illness is really important - friends and family are visiting and they wont if she's 40 miles away, never mind my dad.
Ive told her I'm going to dig deeper as to whether the CCG can do a 'spot contract' for us for the home we like.
But like so much about this NIGHTMARE system we all have to struggle through - I just wondered if anybody had been in this position??
Many thanks