We live in a retirement village and once a week have a happy hour for neighbours, which is in a different house each month.
My OH has Alz, I am suspicious one of the neighbours is going the same way. Anyway, my OH nearly always sits beside her and it has become a "thing" where they talk to each other in the usual teasing, which has become suggestive, way. Yesterday, she was holding his hand, which didn't bother me too much, but when she was outside, leaving, I heard him say, "Wouldn't a cuddle be better?" Better than what, I don't know!
I'm thinking I should maybe have taken to sitting between them somewhat sooner, but to be honest, don't want to sit by her all the time as just hear the same thing over and over and I can get that at home! We have been here for 18 months and she's always been the type who tries to dominate the conversation and has no insight, it seems, into other people's feelings.
Any ideas/thoughts welcome.
My OH has Alz, I am suspicious one of the neighbours is going the same way. Anyway, my OH nearly always sits beside her and it has become a "thing" where they talk to each other in the usual teasing, which has become suggestive, way. Yesterday, she was holding his hand, which didn't bother me too much, but when she was outside, leaving, I heard him say, "Wouldn't a cuddle be better?" Better than what, I don't know!
I'm thinking I should maybe have taken to sitting between them somewhat sooner, but to be honest, don't want to sit by her all the time as just hear the same thing over and over and I can get that at home! We have been here for 18 months and she's always been the type who tries to dominate the conversation and has no insight, it seems, into other people's feelings.
Any ideas/thoughts welcome.