as i have just joined i do not know where to start or to begin as this is new for me , my dad is currentley in residential care as he has vascular dementia , this last 2 to 3 years has been hard for my sisters and my self to try to cope with, we did alot on a daily basis with in the end what you could call help from a care company , you see me my two sisters and my brother ended being the main stay of his care , in january he went into hospital with a chest infection and uti he was very poorly they sent him to recover in a care home which while he was there it became apparent this was what was needed as toward the end of life in his bungalow we had to lock him in so he did not wander and as he smoked this was not safe it was a nightmare but what else could we do ....