Mum – home alone
Mum is home from the hospital, however the START (rehab) team who had previously been sending carers in 3 times a day have taken her off their books?! I’m sure the only reason the doctor agreed to her coming home was because care was in place, because he specifically asked me. I can’t believe this, and right at the moment I cannot cope with Mum on my own. She hasn’t had a bowel movement since Tuesday, and won’t drink or sit on the toilet for long enough. I’m managing to get some medication into her, but she’s so uncooperative. I’ve been in tears again, not sure whether its frustration, anger, hurt? She’s in pain (her back), which I guess is related to the constipation, but I can’t do any more than I am. I can’t force her to drink, or force her to have a bowel movement. She was asking for Dad again first thing this morning, and saying there are men in the house. She won’t have a wash either – she refused in the hospital too, so that’s been 5 days. Once again, I feel like a failure because basically I’m unable to take care of her.
Mum is home from the hospital, however the START (rehab) team who had previously been sending carers in 3 times a day have taken her off their books?! I’m sure the only reason the doctor agreed to her coming home was because care was in place, because he specifically asked me. I can’t believe this, and right at the moment I cannot cope with Mum on my own. She hasn’t had a bowel movement since Tuesday, and won’t drink or sit on the toilet for long enough. I’m managing to get some medication into her, but she’s so uncooperative. I’ve been in tears again, not sure whether its frustration, anger, hurt? She’s in pain (her back), which I guess is related to the constipation, but I can’t do any more than I am. I can’t force her to drink, or force her to have a bowel movement. She was asking for Dad again first thing this morning, and saying there are men in the house. She won’t have a wash either – she refused in the hospital too, so that’s been 5 days. Once again, I feel like a failure because basically I’m unable to take care of her.