Hello all,
Mum seems to be settling in to the nursing home ok, and is beginning to get her appetite back, albeit slowly. Although today she did ask me when she was going home, and then said I never take her home. This, of course, upset me.
Then, just as I was about to leave, I noticed that one of her front teeth was chipped which I hadn't noticed before. I visited yesterday, with my daughter, and Mum smiled and laughed a bit. Neither me nor my daughter noticed anything.
Now of course, I'm thinking and imagining the worst. How easy is it to chip a tooth? Did I do it when I was trying to feed her? Wouldn't I have noticed?
I've reported it to the home, but they say that they hadn't noticed it, but to be fair, when Mum speaks you can't see her teeth, only when she laughs or smiles.
They are going to call in the dentist.
I just seem to be sinking deeper into something; I don't know what. It seems to be more difficult since she went in.
Add to the mix, two teenagers who can't be in the same room without World War 3 breaking out!
Feeling very alone and desperate now. The guilt and sadness is becoming nearly unbearable. x
Fran
Mum seems to be settling in to the nursing home ok, and is beginning to get her appetite back, albeit slowly. Although today she did ask me when she was going home, and then said I never take her home. This, of course, upset me.
Then, just as I was about to leave, I noticed that one of her front teeth was chipped which I hadn't noticed before. I visited yesterday, with my daughter, and Mum smiled and laughed a bit. Neither me nor my daughter noticed anything.
Now of course, I'm thinking and imagining the worst. How easy is it to chip a tooth? Did I do it when I was trying to feed her? Wouldn't I have noticed?
I've reported it to the home, but they say that they hadn't noticed it, but to be fair, when Mum speaks you can't see her teeth, only when she laughs or smiles.
They are going to call in the dentist.
I just seem to be sinking deeper into something; I don't know what. It seems to be more difficult since she went in.
Add to the mix, two teenagers who can't be in the same room without World War 3 breaking out!
Feeling very alone and desperate now. The guilt and sadness is becoming nearly unbearable. x
Fran