Just an update re Brian. After spending 2 weeks in hospital with a chest infection and pneumonia it was decided by the social worker Doctor and nurse from the hospital that Brian now needs 24 hour care and the only way was a CH. Well after lots of worries over finance etc i found a CH. By goodness they are not cheap!! good job we can afford to self fund for a while but after approx 10 weeks the LA have said that they should be able to take over his payments (i worry about this but have been reassured by the CH that all will be well)
Anyway Brian has settled in so well to the CH. They are great and ring me to reassure me that all is well with him. I'm really pleased but i miss him so much, even when he was at his worst i still can't really believe that he's no longer at home but has a new life somewhere else.
I feel as if i'm bereaved but of course i'm not. It's a really horrible place to be. I want him back but know that it can never be.
I feel as if this has all happened so quickly. I HATE this disease and what it does to the person but also what it does to those who love them.
Anyway Brian has settled in so well to the CH. They are great and ring me to reassure me that all is well with him. I'm really pleased but i miss him so much, even when he was at his worst i still can't really believe that he's no longer at home but has a new life somewhere else.
I feel as if i'm bereaved but of course i'm not. It's a really horrible place to be. I want him back but know that it can never be.
I feel as if this has all happened so quickly. I HATE this disease and what it does to the person but also what it does to those who love them.