Just when I thought I was sort of doing ok with managing the frustration, the repeating, the irrational anxiety, I have committed the worse sin and engaged in a hum-dinger with Mum. I'm so cross with myself, but there seems to be a limit to how much criticism I can take.
Mum moved in with us (hubby and 3 boys) nearly 2 years ago, and Alz and VasDem was diagnosed last year. Since then, she has rapidly forgotten how lonely she was in the few years before she moved. So now all I get is how awful life is now (she refuses to go to any activities, day care etc), and how much better it was before she moved. How awful and messy the house is, the children don't behave like Victorian children.....and on it goes.
Nothing is ever right (but she's always been like that). I can't go out in the evenings (without hubby) because she causes merry hell. She's very reluctant to help with any light chores around the house, although often berates me for not doing things for her that she's quite capable of.....
She won't entertain the idea of outside help, because there's 'nothing wrong with her'.... ughhhh!!!
Just needed a bit of a rant...
Thank you for listening/reading...
Lu xx
Mum moved in with us (hubby and 3 boys) nearly 2 years ago, and Alz and VasDem was diagnosed last year. Since then, she has rapidly forgotten how lonely she was in the few years before she moved. So now all I get is how awful life is now (she refuses to go to any activities, day care etc), and how much better it was before she moved. How awful and messy the house is, the children don't behave like Victorian children.....and on it goes.
Nothing is ever right (but she's always been like that). I can't go out in the evenings (without hubby) because she causes merry hell. She's very reluctant to help with any light chores around the house, although often berates me for not doing things for her that she's quite capable of.....
She won't entertain the idea of outside help, because there's 'nothing wrong with her'.... ughhhh!!!
Just needed a bit of a rant...
Thank you for listening/reading...
Lu xx