Hi, Mum is settling reasonably in a nursing home. At 96 most of her pals are dead, so there is really no one to visit her. Apart from infrequent visits from an invisible, I am her only visitor.
I go in every day to see her and if I don't go in she starts fretting, she also frets every day when I leave. The home says she is mainly okay but she sometimes has a sort of anxiety attack if I don't appear when she expects me. I can understand that she thinks I am the only link to her 'real' life, but I have M.E. And find it all exhausting. I am staying near her just to keep her happy, but that is quite a big deal.
How have others coped with a loved one's 'separation anxiety'? has it diminished over time or does it tend to stay the same?
I go in every day to see her and if I don't go in she starts fretting, she also frets every day when I leave. The home says she is mainly okay but she sometimes has a sort of anxiety attack if I don't appear when she expects me. I can understand that she thinks I am the only link to her 'real' life, but I have M.E. And find it all exhausting. I am staying near her just to keep her happy, but that is quite a big deal.
How have others coped with a loved one's 'separation anxiety'? has it diminished over time or does it tend to stay the same?