Hi, it is so hard to know what to do, I have tried doing less visits and every day visits, for my Mum it makes no difference what we do, she always greets us as though she hasn't seen us for years and unfortunately she still occasionally is in an agitated, angry state, wanting to come home. Personally if it was down to me, I would only visit my Mum once a week, but my Dad insists on going every other day and as I have to take him, I also see her that frequently too. If my Dad is unwell and can't go, I don't always visit as frequently, I usually phone the care home to make sure all is ok. I wish I could do this all the time as I find it very difficult
, she doesn't usually know who I am and sometimes I feel she doesn't want me there
. You must do what is best for you really xx
Ange