Sue, I think the best doctors do listen to what people are telling them. Our experience of neurologists has been very unfortunate though - the ones we've met have been too interested in the brain and ignored the person.
The leading expert we had the good fortune to be seen by for about twelve years once wrote in a letter to another professional 'I am very reluctant to discount what a patient is telling me'. Perhaps all doctors shound have this on a poster to remind them.
It must be very frustrating for you, particularly in view of your background, that they won't listen.
I don't think you're alone in believing that there could be a link between some forms of arthritis and some types of cognitive impairment.
I hope you will keep telling them what you think, even when they don't appear to be listening.
I agree with you Stanley, I have had experience with many Drs in my time and, some are only interested in their careers not really about helping patients, sadly. They don't seem to realise that all the medical understanding we now have is because someone listened to and observed their patients and wrote things down. We all know when someone is listening to us or not and it greatly affects the Dr patient relationship.
I am aware (I wish I wasn't) of what is happening in my body & brain but have always said 'I need help', right now whatever the unidentified problem is it is not fixable but my situation could be changed with the right help and support. Yes, I do keep telling them what I think and thankfully I have someone now who is listening, what help they can instigate for me is too early to say. The neurologist who did express his written opinion has slowed up my getting help because subsequent Drs listened to his opinion more than listening to what I was saying leaving me, having felt I had climbed a small ladder, slipping down a long snake!
It frustrates me greatly, not just for me, but for the many patients who are unable to communicate in any way, who do not understand what is happening to them and are in the hands of people who are not helping, but hindering them.It hurts my heart
I'm sorry to read that you too have not had favourable dealing with neurologists but pleased to read of the obviously very good specialist you also had