A life in the day of.........................

[LYN T]

Love and admiration coming your way Sylvia.

Dhiren is returning your gift of love in those smiles of his.

Take care

Lyn T

 

[piedwarbler]

Sending love and thoughts xx

 

[chris53]

Xxxxxxxxx still thinking of you all

 

[grove]

Hello Sylvia , You are both in my thoughts & sending much love to you , Dhrien & Paul


Grove x x

 

[ellejay]

Thinking of you all x

Love Lin x

 

[Goingitalone]

Hoping today has been peaceful and full of lovely smiles.

 

[Grannie G]

A big change for the worst today.

Early this morning a further change in his breathing.

Later this morning a bubbly cough.

The DN gave him an injection of Glycopyrronium to dry up the secretions.

She believed he would be ready for the syringe driver by late afternoon.

Early afternoon fluid on the chest increased and Dhiren didn`t have the strength to shift it.

It was lunch time. The surgery was closed for lunch and 111 couldn`t be used because it wasn’t `out of hours`.

He had two hours of discomfort including a few minutes of terror.

He suffered when he was changed and moved. His facial expression said it all.

Two surgery nurses came and installed the syringe driver.

Slowly and gradually he calmed down. Still coughing bubbles he slept.

Paul and I sat with him.

He was shrinking before our eyes.

I was going to stay overnight but was persuaded to come home while a senior carer sits with him.

Paul has been granted indefinite leave.

Syringe Driver Day 1. No food Day 4 . No fluids Day 3.

 

[Butter]

I am sorry. I am glad you are getting advice to sleep yourself and I am glad your son has leave.

 

[CollegeGirl]

Oh Sylvia, I'm so sorry, what a horrible day for you all. Silly thing to say, but I do hope you manage to get some rest tonight. I hope the night is uneventful and Dhiren is more comfortable tomorrow.

With love to you all xx

 

[Haylett]

Dear Sylvia, nothing at all that can be said. I'm so sorry for your sadness. I hope Dhiren remains comfortable and peaceful. I'm so glad he is cared for and respected in a home that you trust. Please try to rest - they will call you if you need to return. No-one could do more than you have. No-one could care more.

 

[Linda Mc]

Oh! Sylvia I am so sorry so distressing for Dhiren and you and Paul. I can only say if you feel you should go back and sit with him do so, only you know what is right for you all.

Sending love and support.

 

[jeany123]

Sylvia I am sorry Dhiren hadn't a very good day, I hope it is more peaceful and pain free for him tomorrow , thinking of you both x

Jeany xxx


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[Soobee]

I am so sorry there has been such a change today. xx

 

[nellbelles]

Sylvia

May you and Paul and the family take strength from the love you all share.xx

 

[grove]

Am also so sorry Sylvia that there has been such a change today & so sorry you had to watch the terror


Glad a Snr Carer will be sitting with Dhrien & hope that brings you comfort Sylvia


Much Love & Kind thoughts


Love Grove x x

 

[Izzy]

Oh Sylvia. I haven't adequate words. You are all in my thoughts. xx


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[Mameeskye]

At times like this there are no words..

(((((Hugs)))))

Love mameeskye

 

[SisterAct]

Thinking of you all Sylvia.
I hope Dhiren is comfortable and pain free
Luv
Polly xxx

 

[creativesarah]

Oh Sylvia it is so hard to watch loved ones suffer I know I wished I could have taken Lucy's place and spared her
I am so glad that Paul has been given indefinate leave
Much love and supporrt

Sarah

 

[piedwarbler]

So sorry that Dhiren was uncomfy for a while today. That must've been very hard to witness. But what a witness to him you've been. No-one could have done more. Hope you sleep. So glad you have Paul with you from now on.
I recognise your feeling that Dhiren is shrinking. I hope he continues peacefully tonight. With love to you all xx