A life in the day of.........................

[LYN T]

Sylvia

I'm so sorry-I can only imagine your shock and heartbreak over Dhirens downturn overnight. You are being so brave and strong as always.

I'm glad the care is so good-no battles on that front at least

Take care Sylvia-you and Dhiren are in a lot of people's thoughts

Love from Lyn T

 

[Shash7677]

Thinking of you all,

Sharon

 

[jeany123]

Dear Sylvia, I am so sorry to hear of Dhirens downturn and I hope that he has a peaceful day, I am sending you strength and love,

Jeany xx

 

[grove]

Dear Sylvia , So sorry to about Dhiren's downturn overnight & the heartbreak that brings to you Sylvia


Good that the Carer's are being so gentle & caring when Dhiren is being turned & hope the Hospital Bed helps


Wishing you both a peaceful day & thinking of you & Dhiren


Love & Kind thoughts

Grove x x

 

[Dazmum]

I am so sorry Sylvia, I hope that you all have a peaceful day and you are in my thoughts. Love xxxxx

 

[chris53]

Dear Sylvia, my thoughts and prayers are with you, I am so sad Dhiren has taken a downturn, I am sure he does know you are there, may today be peaceful for you all
Chris x

 

[CollegeGirl]

Oh Sylvia, I'm thinking of you both, I'm so sorry. I'm glad Dhiren's peaceful and pain free and hope that that at least is of some comfort to you. Much love xx

 

[winda]

Dear Sylvia,

This is such a difficult time for you. But Dhiren at least will be kept out of pain and he is in the best place, getting good care. You have done everything you can possibly do for him.

Please try to take care of yourself. You are very much in my thoughts x

 

[angecmc]

Thinking of you all xx

Ange

 

[BeckyJan]

No words now for you Sylvia but you know you and Dhiren are in my thoughts. xx

 

[flowerpot]

Sylvia I feel so sad in reading about the downturn in Dhiren. My heart goes out to you all. I hope he stays peaceful and pain free. Your MP seems to understand the problems you experienced in the hospital and hopefully this can be taken forward. Of course you really don't need this at the moment. Take care Sylvia and my thoughts are always with you xx

 

[Skye]

Dear Sylvia, yesterday must have been such a shock for you, Dhiren's sudden downturn was so unexpected.

Thankfully he has remained comfortable and at peace without medication. As others have said, I'm sure he knows you are there, and is comforted by that.

I always feel it is a privilege to be with someone you love as they take the final steps in their life. There is a closeness that just being there, holding hands quietly as they drift towards the end, leaves a lasting peace, and a feeling that all is well.

The end, though expected, is always a shock, but I hope this last stage, however long it may last, will remain peaceful for you both.

Thoughts and prayers remain with you all.

 

[kd7279]

Hi Sylvia,
You know that I am not far away if you need any help. Your advice and strength has helped me through my difficult times and I am ready to assist you in any way I can.
Keith

 

[Margaret79]

I have no wise words Sylvia, I just wanted to say that you are in my thoughts and I hope today is peaceful. X

 

[Linda Mc]

I know only too well the feelings and emotions you and Paul are going through and wish you both peace and strength in the days to come.

Much love and hugs

 

[Mameeskye]

Sylvia,

My heart aches for you as you meet the roller coaster of these final stages, when life goes on and you want it to continue, but at the same time you want no suffering.

I hope that Dhiren and you are able to remain peaceful for however long there is left in that piece of string...for mum and I there were many up and down months until the inevitable happened...take pleasure in each good day and try to remain strong for the darker days.

My thoughts are with you all,

Love Mameeskye

 

[Onlyme]

I read right through your thread A life in the Day before I joined so have always followed Dhiren's continuing fight with his illness.

I hope that Dhiren is peaceful and pain free; my thoughts are with you both.

 

[Pookie]

Thinking of you all . remembered you in my prayers.

Peter&Jean Ugly

 

[ellejay]

Thinking of you all x

Lin x

 

[sue38]

I'm sorry Dhiren has experienced a downturn. I think one of the hardest parts is not knowing how long there may be left, and it's not a question anyone seems to be able to answer with any certainty.

Hopefully Dhiren will remain calm and pain free, but it may help to know the pack is on standby should he need it.

Thinking of you both xx