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[Grannie G]

Dear TP friends

Your posts have given me great comfort but I have no words tonight to reply.

Dhiren has suffered today and the suffering made us realise we must take the advice of the consultant and accept DNR and palliative care. The infections have taken their toll and he is unable to tolerate any form of personal care without experiencing intense pain.

It will be a miracle if we see his smile again.

With love. xx

 

[Izzy]

Oh Sylvia. Just sending massive hugs for you both and for Paul and family. xx

 

[Haylett]

Dear Sylvia, Cragmaid and all our other carers have said it all. I'm so sorry that Dhiren is facing the final stage in his journey, and only wish for him, for you and your son, that his release is gentle, painfree, and without fear; and that once again, you will see repose and rest restored to a face that you love so much. x

 

[grove]

Oh Sylvia Am so sorry sending lots of BIG Hugs to you both & Paul & family


Much Love

Grove x x

 

[DeborahBlythe]

Your posts have given me great comfort but I have no words tonight to reply.

Dhiren has suffered today and the suffering made us realise we must take the advice of the consultant and accept DNR and palliative care. The infections have taken their toll and he is unable to tolerate any form of personal care without experiencing intense pain.

It will be a miracle if we see his smile again.

With love. xx

No need to reply, Sylvia. I'm really saddened to read this post. Sending you, Dhiren and your family much love and wishing Dhiren a comfy night. xx

 

[nellbelles]

Sylvia
I have been following this today, I send hugs and love, I have no words for how you must be feeling.

Helen xx

 

[Onlyme]

I hope that Dhiren is no longer in pain and comforted by you and Paul being with him.

 

[jeany123]

I hope that Dhiren is peaceful and pain free,
I am thinking of Dhiren and you and your son and sending love and hugs x

We are all with you Sylvia xx


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[chris53]

Thinking of you all Sylvia x

 

[Linda Mc]

Having been through the same situation a few months ago my heart goes out to you Sylvia, Paul and family. I am sure Dhiren will know he is back in the care of those that love him and it is the right decision to have him in the comfort and calm of his own room and you at his side.

Thinking of you all with love.

 

[Loopiloo]

Both Dhiren and you have hardly been out of my thoughts all day and night. Good of you to write, Sylvia. You must be exhausted, and stressed that Dhiren is in pain. I do so hope that this can be addressed and the pain eased for him.

What can I say...... You are both in my heart and my thoughts.

Like others, yours was the first thread I read, all of it, when I joined almost 4 years ago, and Dhiren is dear to all of us, as are you.

With love

Loo xx

 

[FifiMo]

So sorry to read about Dhiren, Sylvia. I hope that the palliative care he needs are properly written up as there is no need for pain with the medications available these days. Then, when comfortable and pain minimised, you might happen by one of those smiles...

Fiona

 

[Mameeskye]

I am sorry the news is not better for you Sylvia, my thoughts are with you and Dhiren at this stage of your journey, as once your thoughts were with my Mum and I.

With hope that you both find the peace you need,

Mameeskye

 

[DeborahBlythe]

I hope you were able to rest tonight, Sylvia. Thinking of you both. x

 

[maryw]

Thinking of you and your family. I am sure Dhiren senses he is surrounded by love in a familiar environment. He may not be able to respond much but the senses are still there. Definitely the right decision to be back at the care home. Sending love xx

 

[grove]

You are all in my thoughts Sylvia & hope Dhiren had a comfortable night & wishing you , Dhiren & Paul much love & peace today


Love & kind thoughts


Love Grove x x x

 

[winda]

You are all very much in my thoughts Sylvia during this very difficult time. X

 

[piedwarbler]

In my thoughts Sylvia. I know all you will want is Dhiren to be pain free so I shall hope for this x

 

[Grannie G]

Thank you again.

I have just had a text from the assistant manager. Dhiren had a peaceful night. She arrived at 7.15am [her shift doesn`t start till 8 ] and he was sleeping peacefully.

 

[Dazmum]

I am pleased to hear that Dhiren is peaceful Sylvia. Thinking of you today xxx