Hi there, I am hoping someone will be able to point me in the right direction with my problem. I am a cleaner/home help for an elderly couple in North Hampshire (near Basingstoke). They have 2 children who live in the Uk - one lives about 50 miles away and the other lives about 80 miles away. They are a very close loving family and see each other several times during the year.
I have contacted the children several times over the past 2 years as I have become very concerned about the lady who I clean for. There have been episodes of her not recognising friends, her husband, me, forgetting appointments, where she is, forgetting to take her medication for depression, and numerous other episodes too greaqt to list here.
The upshot is, her husband seems to think the days she is bad are just "one of those days" and their children - whilst realising that she does have some issues, tell me that she is far from the stage where she needs help on a regular basis.
I am at my wits end somedays as this poor lady is so very confused that I spend the two hours I am at the house, reassuring and trying to let her husband see just how bad things are getting.
I know from seeing my own Father suffer with this condition, that life could be made a bit easier for both her and her husband but my hands are tied and I am not sure what exactly can be done, given that I have given the husband information and leaflets but to no avail. Help!!
I have contacted the children several times over the past 2 years as I have become very concerned about the lady who I clean for. There have been episodes of her not recognising friends, her husband, me, forgetting appointments, where she is, forgetting to take her medication for depression, and numerous other episodes too greaqt to list here.
The upshot is, her husband seems to think the days she is bad are just "one of those days" and their children - whilst realising that she does have some issues, tell me that she is far from the stage where she needs help on a regular basis.
I am at my wits end somedays as this poor lady is so very confused that I spend the two hours I am at the house, reassuring and trying to let her husband see just how bad things are getting.
I know from seeing my own Father suffer with this condition, that life could be made a bit easier for both her and her husband but my hands are tied and I am not sure what exactly can be done, given that I have given the husband information and leaflets but to no avail. Help!!
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