I am new to TP but got a lot of strength from reading all the blogs late last night. It is nice to hear from people who are going through the same as me. I am at the edge now. I have been caring for my mum as her full-time carer since her diagnosis of Alzheimers in 2007. I spent 3 years caring in the Caribbean but since Sept 2011 we returned to the UK as her conditioning was worsening and we had lost our father in the June of that year. I am 52 and always had a very active life with a responsible job. Since caring for mum I have given up work and am in the home for near 24/7. I have a large family and although they are supportive the full responsibility lies with me but I'm not sure I can do it anymore. Mum is in the Final stages; is bedridden, doesn't speak, cannot communicate in anyway and although we would like to think she knows us we cannot be sure. I am really struggling now and though I love mum very much I feel that I need to put her into a nursing home however I am fighting with the feeling of guilt. My siblings all agree that it is time as they are getting worried about me but I really wanted to care for her until the end as I did with my father. How do you cope with the guilt and feeling of letting them down.