My husband was diagnosed just over a year ago and I decided to retire. Shortly before I retired he "lost" his car which he said he left in a car park in the shopping centre near where we live. Despite our best efforts we were unable to find it and decided to claim off the insurance, and as I was retiring and we did not need two cars, agreed not to replace it. The car was subsequently found four months later in an entirely different location in a side street. It was undamaged.
Since my retirement he has become very "needy", getting very upset and confused if I go out, especially at night. As I have a very active social life and a wide circle of friends I am finding this very difficult and stressful, and am also becoming resentful. A few weeks ago I went to visit a friend and on my way home at around 12.45 am encountered him coming along the street! On Saturday I went to an afternoon tea function for an ex-colleague who was leaving. He insisted on running me into town and also wanted to come back and pick me up, but I said that I would get the bus as I didn't know when it would finish.
In returned home at 8.45 pm and both he and my car were missing. I tried to ring him on his mobile but it was switched off, as usual. He returned home about an hour later in a very confused and upset state, saying that he had felt unwell and had left the care in a housing estate in the next village and walked home. He also said that everyone was against him and he was thinking of committing suicide. . I walked with him to the place he said that he had left the car and despite extensive searching for more than an hour. could not find it. The next morning he said that he remembered now where he had left it, we went there, but again no sign.
I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and he ran me around the area and we found the car in a totally different estate from the one he said he left it in, in a different village.
I told him that I was not happy with him having the car unaccompanied. He is in total denial about the problem and says that "anyone can forget where they leave their car". I have asked him to go to the doctor as I feel his much worse now and we are getting no support from the specialist medical service, only from the G.P. However, he refuses to go as he "is getting better".
Today he asked for the car keys and I refused and he has now gone off in a strop saying he is going to buy a car and move out.
Since my retirement he has become very "needy", getting very upset and confused if I go out, especially at night. As I have a very active social life and a wide circle of friends I am finding this very difficult and stressful, and am also becoming resentful. A few weeks ago I went to visit a friend and on my way home at around 12.45 am encountered him coming along the street! On Saturday I went to an afternoon tea function for an ex-colleague who was leaving. He insisted on running me into town and also wanted to come back and pick me up, but I said that I would get the bus as I didn't know when it would finish.
In returned home at 8.45 pm and both he and my car were missing. I tried to ring him on his mobile but it was switched off, as usual. He returned home about an hour later in a very confused and upset state, saying that he had felt unwell and had left the care in a housing estate in the next village and walked home. He also said that everyone was against him and he was thinking of committing suicide. . I walked with him to the place he said that he had left the car and despite extensive searching for more than an hour. could not find it. The next morning he said that he remembered now where he had left it, we went there, but again no sign.
I then enlisted the help of my brother in law and he ran me around the area and we found the car in a totally different estate from the one he said he left it in, in a different village.
I told him that I was not happy with him having the car unaccompanied. He is in total denial about the problem and says that "anyone can forget where they leave their car". I have asked him to go to the doctor as I feel his much worse now and we are getting no support from the specialist medical service, only from the G.P. However, he refuses to go as he "is getting better".
Today he asked for the car keys and I refused and he has now gone off in a strop saying he is going to buy a car and move out.