Father in law lives alone and has reached the stage where he cannot work the TV, he refuses to go into a home and we live 150 miles away. We have phoned the engineer twice and both times he told us that someone has pulled out the aerial from the back of the TV. We have been down and found that on other occasions he has taken out the battery from the remote or he has picked up a different remote and complained his TV is not working. He has even somehow managed to go into the set up system and received German TV??
We now get a phone call about once a week to tell us his TV is broken and he needs a new one. We have spoken to the lady carer who looks after him but she cannot help. It looks like we will be phoning the engineer again to go round and put his ariel lead back in but we are worried that by the next day the same thing could happen. Has anyone had this problem or can suggest any solution?
He constantly fiddles with things and there are screw drives and pliers all over the place. Last Saturday night he phoned at 11pm to say his bathroom was flooding and we were desperately trying to contact an emergency plumber, he had no idea about stopcocks or what to do. When it was sorted the plumber said that someone had taken the cistern apart and not put it back properly. In the winter he fiddles with the radiators and takes off the thermostatic valves from all the radiators and then phones us to say his heating is not working.
This constant fiddling is, I think part of his illness, but living so far away we cannot sort out problems. He obviously gets frustrated and he thinks that people come into his bungalow as he does not remember doing anything, so the only logical explanation to him is that other people are messing with his stuff. There is no point trying to explain anything to him as 30 seconds later he has forgotten whatever was said.
He can get aggressive when we mention a care home and wants to come and live with us. We tried this for a couple of months and we simply could not cope. He has forgotten that and keeps asking if he can live with us.
Sorry to go on but every few months he gets us down as we are constantly sorting out problems for him, to which he is oblivious and he now blames us for not fixing his TV straight away - its Sunday evening! He gets aggressive and has phoned four times today about his TV. At least it makes a change from demanding money all the time.
AAAAHHHHHH
We now get a phone call about once a week to tell us his TV is broken and he needs a new one. We have spoken to the lady carer who looks after him but she cannot help. It looks like we will be phoning the engineer again to go round and put his ariel lead back in but we are worried that by the next day the same thing could happen. Has anyone had this problem or can suggest any solution?
He constantly fiddles with things and there are screw drives and pliers all over the place. Last Saturday night he phoned at 11pm to say his bathroom was flooding and we were desperately trying to contact an emergency plumber, he had no idea about stopcocks or what to do. When it was sorted the plumber said that someone had taken the cistern apart and not put it back properly. In the winter he fiddles with the radiators and takes off the thermostatic valves from all the radiators and then phones us to say his heating is not working.
This constant fiddling is, I think part of his illness, but living so far away we cannot sort out problems. He obviously gets frustrated and he thinks that people come into his bungalow as he does not remember doing anything, so the only logical explanation to him is that other people are messing with his stuff. There is no point trying to explain anything to him as 30 seconds later he has forgotten whatever was said.
He can get aggressive when we mention a care home and wants to come and live with us. We tried this for a couple of months and we simply could not cope. He has forgotten that and keeps asking if he can live with us.
Sorry to go on but every few months he gets us down as we are constantly sorting out problems for him, to which he is oblivious and he now blames us for not fixing his TV straight away - its Sunday evening! He gets aggressive and has phoned four times today about his TV. At least it makes a change from demanding money all the time.
AAAAHHHHHH